If ever a case called for Judge Judy, this is it. She’d have cut to the chase within 2 minutes.
So, having pieces it all together, these cowboys have £5k of yours, totally underestimated the amount of work involved, took photos to show their boss the place is bigger than they expected. Now they’ve said they can’t do it because they only allotted 5 weeks but this is going to be a much longer job, and they’ve still got your deposit. You’re pissed off. Work was supposed to start, they’ve strung you along to today’s start date and now you don’t think you’ll see them until the new year. As it is, you want shot of them.
To add insult to injury, they were underhand in taking photos of your house when your back was turned. These strangers, in your house, treating it like a building site and not your home. They also had your kid in one of the pics. They’ve basically got your money, not upheld their side of the bargain, treated you disrespectfully in your home, given you the run around and YOU’RE PISSED OFF.
I get it. But you’re going about this all wrong. You’re angry and pissed off but you won’t get what you want - your money back and photos deleted - by shouting and throwing around breach of privacy accusations and threatening court action. I mean, you could. But wouldn’t it be quicker and cheaper and better for your blood pressure to just, like, ask them in the morning? Calm down, catch your breath, talk to them calmly and say when you’re pissed off with and what you want? Maybe hold the threat of court action over them, silent assassin-style?
There’s really no need for all this shouting and anger. I’ve had shitty men treat me like a nothing in my own home (looking at you, Liebherr repair man), but shouting isn’t as effective as a well planned phone call and follow-up letter to the right person. And, if this is a cowboy outfit with no proper person to complain to, I’m afraid you only have yourself to blame. You won’t see that money again (or you will but be net down after costs, time and stress that you can ill afford with a toddler and a job).