Hi everyone. About 2 weeks ago I completed a c100 application online. I haven’t had any updates or correspondence regarding my application yet. I am aware it can take at least 4-6 weeks to process according to what it states on the government website.
I am wondering if anyone knows if it’s possible for me to withdraw my application before it is processed and potentially given a court date or decision?
My reasons for the application are complicated but the main reason is to restrict access between my ex partner and our young children. This decision was not taken lightly and it is not a result of an argument or feud between ex’s. The sole purpose is protection for my children. Not physical protection but the protection of their mental health. Potential harm caused by their father during our relationship and more so, current mental health issues and trauma caused by them having contact with him on a regular basis. My children and I are being supported by our GP and local services plus their schools which is wonderful.
I am debating withdrawing my application due to fear of their father’s potentially aggressive and angry reaction when he discovers what I’m applying for. He has never been physically aggressive or abusive towards the kids, only to me, but I am concerned any possible aggressive response would be witnessed by the children and harm them further.
I would rather not be the one to take this matter through the courts and let him be the one to make an application himself…if he decides he wants to do that.
Is there any way to stop my application going forward?
Thank you