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I am 61 and getting divorced.
My job (teacher) pays about 50k. The situation at work is intolerable and unless I resign I am like to be put on capability which is pretty much a one way street - they decide they want you out and put you through the mill. So I am thinking I resign before I am pushed s as will put me in a better position for applying for other jobs.
But am about to negotiate a Financial settlement with my STBXH (no maintenance/kids grown) and worried that it will look as if I intentionally resigned to make my financial situation worse.
But if I stay the stress will be intolerable along with the general stress of the divorce itself.
Views welcome! TIA