My DF, who I was very close to, died without a will 11 months ago. I have not spoken to my mother and brothers for 5 months as my mother is a nasty raging alcoholic who brings nothing to my life but misery. My brothers know exactly what she is like but choose to side with her which I’m not that bothered about. My mother and DF did not live together as she was abusive to him but basically picked him up and dropped him again whenever it suited her.
My daughter who still speaks to my mother told me last night that my mother had called her up drunk and said that her and my brothers hadn’t disclosed to the solicitor that I even exist in order to cut me out of any inheritance. My daughter pulled her up about this and she started raging on that she gives the instructions and that it’s up to her what happens with my dads money. Now I know this isn’t true, I am in Scotland and I know that I cannot be disinherited even if there was a will. I don’t care whether it’s £5 or £5000 I am due to inherit, it’s the principle of her trying to cut me out because I won’t be spoken to like a piece of shit.
I don’t know who the solicitor is that is dealing with my dads estate. Can anyone tell me if there is a way for me to find this out so I can inform them that I do actually exist?