I was in family court recently, on teams.
The just recommended that she wants to have the next court date in person so she can read body language.
I am aware that I sit down and don't move a muscle. I show no expression at all unless I am talking and then I can't help it, it shows as I speak. But normally it's my barrister speaking on my behalf and so I don't show anything. I think it might be considered strange for a female who a court my expect to shed a tear with the domestic abuse shit Ive gone through.
My male ex is tutting, growing, sighing, folding arms, shrugging, all manner of expressions, constantly.
I am a little afraid that my lack of emotion will make a judge think I feel nothing therefore nothing happened. Is that likely to happen? I wondered if they may recognise it as a coping strategy rather than a sign I might en sort of psychopath!
Even if it is taken this way, I am not one to pretend so couldn't fake emotions. But I could allow myself to frown or shake my head at the right moments, if I had to.
Question is, do I have to?
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BrokenByThis · 21/05/2022 11:27
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