Not me - asking about a friend who has decided to represent herself in family court going forward. She said she has spent over £30k so far and just can’t afford it anymore.
Her abusive ex is taking her back to court to try and overturn the previous court order as he’s not happy with it. I’m scared for her that in representing herself she is going to lose their DC because he has a barrister who will undoubtedly know the law better and have the ‘gift of the gab’ on how to sway the judge in his favour.
For background -last year the court ordered DC split between them as 4 days friend / 3 days ex-partner. When DC starts school friend becomes the resident parent, ex has DC EOW and one night in the week.
She left him when DC was 4 months old because of emotional abuse and coercive control. He was ordered to do anger management course because of his behaviour towards friend (no change though). No abuse towards the DC I believe.
Im just so worried that this could be the worst decision of her life. Anyone know if judges are biased towards those with a barrister? I have heard that judges don’t like people representing themselves but that’s not my concern.
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Strawblue · 20/05/2022 12:32
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