My mum was with her boyfriend for 3 years. Since my fathers passing 15 years ago she got lonely and wanted a companionship. She met a man of a similar age and they seamed to get along at first. Moved in together in a small flat. My mum owns properties outright and he wanted her to sell up to free up some cash. I was adamant she should not give her money to this man! Thankfully she didn’t! Anyways…. They lived together for around 2.5 years and his health apparently took a turn for the worst when he said he had a sore leg ahd wouldn’t get out of bed for months on end. X-rays and scans showed nothing expect he was severely overweight! He lay in bed for months expecting my mum to work full time and come home and tidy up his mess, clean his body after using the bathroom as he was so fat he couldn’t reach. I was disgusted when I found out and felt like my poor kind hearted mum was being took for granted. Thankfully she told me she planned to leave him. She sought out a new place to live where he didn’t know and off she went one day. He went crazy that day. Texting and ringing all her friends and family telling them to make her come home he will change. But she said to block him. We all did. We realised she had quite had enough of this man. We were all happy for her. He began trying to stalk her. Turning up at my house. My siblings houses, her friends houses, looking all over for her, following us incase we were going to see her. We all called the police and my mum ended up getting a non molestation order against him with the power of arrest. If that wasn’t enough he began texting her best friend threatening to kill her if she didn’t disclose my mums where abouts. Police called again. Arrested charged with stalking, harassment and threats to kill. Things went quiet. Happy days! The non molestation order ran out 1 week ago. Nobody thought much of it. It’s lasted 1 year and we haven’t heard from him, perhaps he’s moved on with his life. Nope he turns up at my mums best friends house with a letter stating on the envelope if my mum doesn’t open she is going to have serious consequences! My mums friend calls her and over the phone they open up this letter (incase he’s waiting to follow my mums friend to my mums house) my mums friend reads her the letter. He wants £40,000 into his bank within 2 weeks or karma is coming for us all. We call the police again and give them the letter. Because the order has ran out they can not arrest him but instead give him a warning of harassment!! I feel this is not the end at all and something bad is going to happen and I’ll be honest I’m worried!
can we take this further? Can my mum take out another order with only this reason of a threatening letter? He knows where we all live expect my mum and I feel it’s us he’s all coming for and I am genuinely scared. He’s a very large man, 6ft and over 35 stone. I’m rather small and slim, pregnant not to mention and don’t need this worry or stress. What can we all do about this? I feel he needs locked away as we are not safe