Hi guys, sorry I'm not sure if this is the best place to post this but I'm really struggling to understand shared parental leave and how the pay works. This didn't exist when I had my first child.
I want to take 8 months maternity leave whilst during the first 4 months DH would take shared parental leave with me. I have read on various charity websites such as maternity action that it is possible for me to be on maternity leave at same time as DH takes shared parental leave. But I'm confused as lots of websites state that for me to create shared parental leave I need to end my maternity leave. How can that be the case if I'm supposedly able to remain on maternity leave while DH takes SPL? If I don't have to end my maternity leave, how do I create leave for DH and how do we legally request it? I know with my first born I had to fill out a MATb1 form, is there a similar form we need to use for the SPL?
I also want to understand how it affects pay if we're both off at the same time. The reason I want mat leave for myself is so I can keep my maternity rights, but also in my contract my employer does full pay for the first 3 months, half pay for the next 3 months and then SMP from 6-9 months. I think I would have to give this up if I was also registered as SPL rather than maternity.
I'm assuming if I'm getting paid then DH would be unpaid. Is this right?
Thank you