Hi,
Just reaching out for some advice... we are nearing the end of a renovation project where we had one main contractor and then sourced a couple ourselves... everything was going ok until our main contractor started showing his true colours... We have been so pleasant to them the whole project (having drinks with them after work, offering lunch to them and snacks, giving him time off when he needed) and now he appears to be taking the micky... Last week he simply didn't show up on Thursday and Friday and didn't let us know he wasn't coming (we didn't chase him).. this week he didn't show up on Monday so we called him to ask what was happening and he said he was unwell but will keep us up to date for what will happen the rest of the week. Today, he didn't show up again so we messaged him around midday in our group whatsapp chat with his labourers and he properly kicked off. Literally all we said was 'hi, just wondering if you were coming over today?' and he exploded at us saying he was in bed and wouldn't be coming in. He proceeded to ask why we needed to know if anyone was coming to our house and that we were being idiotic and didn't have any concern for the fact that he is unwell. He then simply deleted me and my partner out of our own whatsapp group... this has come completely out of the blue & as you can imagine I am at a loss as to what to do... there is still a lot of work to be finished... Can someone please offer some advice? I genuinely think he may have some sort of anger/mood issue as I have seen him explode at our house before but never at us...
Thank you