Hello wise MNetters
I'm after some legal advice please. I'll try & keep it succinct. NC for this.
My ex and I split eight years ago. We have two children together. We jointly own a property. We were not married. After the split I remained in the home. My name is on the deeds to the property and the mortgage agreement. During our relationship he earned significantly more than I did and therefore the mortgage payments were made by him from his account. Since the split this arrangement has continued in lieu of child maintenance payments.
Tonight I have had a conversation with the ex regarding the future and a potential house sale at some point. The property will have to be sold any time in the next five years. There is approximately nine years left on the mortgage agreement. Potentially £100k equity. Unfortunately I am not in a position to buy him out.
Yes I know I should have thought before now regarding this situation. Please refrain from judgement about why I have stupidly been reliant on a man to pay the bills (even if I was in a relationship with him) and let it continue and not severed financial ties much much sooner. This is not the purpose of the post.
I would like to know where I stand legally as during the conversation this evening the ex stated that he feels because he has made all the mortgage payments, that when house is sold I am entitled to nothing.
Is he right? and if he's not what do I do? Any helpful advice, would be much appreciated.