Hi,
Firstly, please don't tell me my DH has fucked up as we both know it.
I should also start by saying I fully intend to get advice from a solicitor but have to convince my DH that it's worth it. He is scared that we cannot possibly go up against his business partner and come out of it without being ruined. I'm hoping to show him there is hope. He is on the verge on a nervous breakdown and as he has high blood pressure I'm seriously worried that he will have a stroke or a heart attack due to the stress of the situation. We are also living with my diagnosis of an incurable cancer and have 4 young children. We can't take much more.
So last year my DH set up a limited company (building company) with a 'friend'. This friend is a multimillionaire and seemed to want to help us improve our financial situation (mainly impacted by my situation and the effect it's had on my work and income). Things have recently gone very sour for reasons we genuinely can't fully understand but know that his business partners witch of a daughter is instrumental in causing.
My DH is very (too) generous and has worked at this mans personal property every Saturday for 18 months without charging him a penny due to him being a good friend. My DH is also extremely gullible and from day dot never got any of the paperwork he signed looked over by a solicitor, nor did he get anything in writing to say that he has paid for half of some of the companies assets (3 vans, a digger and a few other valuable items) we have asked for proof that these have been registered in the company name but still haven't been given it. We have reason to believe the vehicles have been registered in the other mans name. His business partner has frozen the company account (probably just my DHs card) and furthermore, we were never even given access to the online banking. I'm fully aware of how stupid naive he's been trusting someone so implicitly so please don't tell me this. We have had unbelievable rows over the last 18 months about the lack of access and paperwork but I'm now at the point where I'm so worried for his health that I can't get angry at him anymore.
We just need to get out. The man's daughter who has been instrumental in stirring up a problem, has told my DH that she is charging items to the company account for items which she wants for her flat which for some unknown reason she expects my DH to pay for. He has already forked out for some of her demands but is now refusing to give her anymore money. I think he wanted to try and salvage the friendship but now sees that this will not happen.
I need to know whether we can dissolve the company without both parties agreeing as I believe his business partner is a narcissist and wants to see us suffer (more then we already are). I also need to know how to get the bank account shut down which again we have no paperwork for or even a bank card with the details on.
I've been trying to stay level headed about it but I'm so fed up of seeing him so depressed when he works so hard 6 days a week that I just need to help him find a way out. I have my 3 monthly scan next week which is always an tense time and I feel like he is about ready to fall apart.
Has anyone got experience of a limited company going sour when there is another partner involved? And what type of solicitor we need to speak to?
Sorry it's so long and if anyone can offer any advice I would really appreciate it!