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DH died no will

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pippitysqueakity · 16/07/2021 08:53

My husband sadly died on Sunday and there is no will. I found a letter, dated earlier this year stating he has shares with Invesco amounting to a large sum of money, which I knew nothing about. Not sure how to proceed. Do I phone the company? I am at the moment trying to approach a lawyer, but not having much success.
I am in Scotland by the way.

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thesandwich · 16/07/2021 09:01

So sorry for your loss.
Would this link help?
www.gov.uk/probate-estate?step-by-step-nav=4f1fe77d-f43b-4581-baf9-e2600e2a2b7a

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RightYesButNo · 16/07/2021 09:14

Since you are in Scotland, I think it’s a little bit different. Here are the specific rules.
This page covers if someone dies without a will.
www.gov.scot/publications/death-scotland-practical-advice-times-bereavement-revised-11th-edition-2016-9781786522726/pages/19/

Then here is the page it links to about executors and how an executor is appointed if there was no will. About the shares - that will be part of “in-gathering” the estate, which the executor does, as you’ll need confirmation of death, etc., to get the shares, I would assume, unless you are a joint owner.
www.gov.scot/publications/death-scotland-practical-advice-times-bereavement-revised-11th-edition-2016-9781786522726/pages/12/
(In-gathering is section iv and also it’s own topic on the page)

BUT, you will want to consult a solicitor on the process of becoming the executor and how to in-gather, most likely, and I have no idea of your family situation - if you had children, if he had children you don’t share, if anyone will be against you becoming executor, etc.

pippitysqueakity · 16/07/2021 09:19

Thank you all, that is very helpful. There is only me really, He was not married before. He has surviving parents and a brother but I do not imagine any of them will want to be involved. We have two children and joint owned our home with no mortgage. He did not work for years and claimed no benefits. The solicitor who holds our deeds is the one I have contacted and I am hoping to hear from them today.

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Babdoc · 16/07/2021 10:06

OP, I’m sorry you are having to struggle with paperwork etc while grieving. I went through this when my DH also died intestate at 36.
I can reassure you that your solicitor will sort out everything for you. You only need to find some relevant documents or point him in the right direction to do it for you. I am also in Scotland, and it was very straightforward, although (as with all legal matters) it takes months longer than you expect, to get it all processed.

user1487194234 · 16/07/2021 15:49

You will need to be appointed as Executor
You will be entitled to the estate up to certain limits,
Your solicitor will be able to advise you through the process
Sorry for your loss

pippitysqueakity · 17/07/2021 13:08

Thank you all. I have now spoken to solicitor and have an idea of how things will go. I think I just panicked and wanted to know everything now if that makes sense. I am not money grabbing, but am terrified of losing house, for no reason I know. Also, I just wanted to feel some control I think. Thank you again

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thesandwich · 17/07/2021 18:04

🌺🌺 very understandable. Take care

PhillipPhillop · 17/07/2021 18:15

So sorry for your loss op. If any time you find yourself phoning a company about anything to do with your dh just ask to speak to someone who deals with bereavement. You will be put through to someone who will deal with you sympathetically and tell you what you need to do. Usually say to send death certificate etc, but at least will actually talk to you which is half the battle.

FinallyHere · 19/07/2021 21:28

So sorry for your loss, for you and your children.

I agree with the PP, most organisations will publish a separate contact number in case of bereavement. Google will find them for you.

Pretty universally a kind and helpful service

All the very best.

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