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What are my rights?

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Kaylasmum49 · 08/06/2021 12:38

I am in an abusive relationship, been together for 20 years and have two DC aged 14 and 17. My partner is buying the house, he refused to put my name on the mortgage because I have a history of bad credit, which is understandable.

My issue is that I can't take the abuse any longer as my mental health has broken down massively. He won't leave and I am struggling to find alternative accommodation for myself and my dc. I pretty much expect to be told that I have no rights whatsoever but I thought I would ask anyway. I live in Scotland if that makes any difference.

OP posts:
Cancellingadvice · 08/06/2021 19:43

Are you married? Have you made any financial contributions to the house?

Kaylasmum49 · 08/06/2021 23:22

Not married. Contents insurance, Bill's, food etc.

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Thehouseofmarvels · 10/06/2021 21:38

I don't think so. I hope you are able to get a council house.

VanCleefArpels · 10/06/2021 21:43

Go to your Council and tell them that you will be homeless - they have a duty to find at least temporary accommodation for you and any minor children coming with you.

Make a claim for UC if you are not working or cannot work because of your mental health. That will bring some money in and May get you help to pay rent.

But most importantly contact your local women’s aid / domestic abuse charity for support and guidance. I’m afraid you’ve discovered the pitfalls of being unmarried.

Pebbledashery · 10/06/2021 22:08

I was you last year. But I wanted no claim to his house whatsoever. I just wanted to leave and never come back. You won't be entitled to anything if you aren't married I'm afraid. The advice given from pp regarding contact the council, claim UC and you'll probably receive the housing element and contact women's aid.
Hope you manage to leave him soon.

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