Hi,
So this may be a little lengthy, but I want to give a full overview.
My line manager was changed last year, and everything had been going ok until about a month ago. Firstly, in March I had my annual review, which was all positive, as it had been the previous 6 years. About a month or two later, my manager wanted another meeting with me regarding my review. She suddenly had some negative feedback for me and the whole meeting had a different tone to the first. I also happened to casually mention how I was starting to struggle with the isolation of lockdown, but this wasn’t in terms of my job being impacted, it was just a casual comment to her about general life - we’d always got on really well.
For the next two weeks she seemed to be unhappy with everything I did. This came from nowhere, I hadn’t changed the way I was working, I’ve done the job for 6 years and know it backwards. A lot of her complaints were things that were out of my control, like colleagues not passing information on to me.
I then asked for a chat with her as I had begun to feel like I was being pushed out of my role or something and it was really impacting my mental health. I told her this and asked her if my role was in trouble. She assured me that it wasn’t, however, she went on to tell me that one of my previous colleagues, who we’d been told was off with COVID, had actually now left. She was his manager too and she told me that he had come to her also struggling with stress/their mental health. Rather than offer support, my manager told him that if he couldn’t cope with the role, she strongly suggest he leave. After this he felt like he couldn’t work with her anymore, so resigned. She said to me that she would make the same suggestion to me.
I came away from that call actually feeling like things would be ok, but disturbed by her telling me this stuff about my colleague, and also a little “threatened”.
Two days later she arranges another meeting with me and this time, HR was also on the call, I’m told I’m going to face a disciplinary. I was devastated to be honest and felt so betrayed. I turned to the HR person and said I would rather agree to a settlement instead if that was possible, and she said it was.
So I was sent an agreement on Monday and asked to see a solicitor and give them my answer by Thursday (tomorrow). I didn’t feel the amount offered was at all reasonable so asked for more, and they came back with a final offer, which I still don’t think is great. My solicitor agrees, especially considering the issues around mental health. My company have refused to increase the offer, so my options now are to employ my solicitor to fight this for me and try and get more money, but of course that could fail and will cost me, which I really can’t afford now. Or I accept their offer and go.
I have also spoken to my ex colleague and let him know about the breach in confidentiality. He’s obviously angry and I’m having a call with him tomorrow. He’s confirmed to me that he very much felt pushed out by our manager due to his mental health.
So what is the best option here? Do I file a complaint on behalf of myself and my ex colleague before leaving, but accept the offer? Do I ask my solicitor to push for more? I really don’t know what the best option is here, or what rights I have, if any!
Thank for reading!