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Cat ownership right

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sleepingcatslie · 02/05/2021 14:53

Hi

Some advice please.

Back in January a friend (A) received a text from another friend (B) asking her if she knew anyone who wanted a cat. B was living with her family who didn’t want the cat and as B was out working the cat spent all day locked in one room and B didn’t think it was fair on the cat. The cat was almost six months old.

Friend C was happy to give the cat a home. The following day A and C met B and B gave the cat to C with some food. The day after that B met A and gave her the cat’s toys, bed, litter etc.

About five days later B text A asking for the cat back. C has now fallen in love with the cat and didn’t want to give her back. There was some exchange of texts between A and B, with A telling B she wasn’t getting the cat back. B had given reasons why she couldn’t keep the cat and her circumstances hadn’t changed.

C has had the cat since January and had her spayed and is a responsible owner.

The police turned up at A’s home yesterday saying that the cat had been reported stolen and the owner wants her back. A showed the police the texts messages between her and B and the police have said it’s now a civil matter and they won’t take any further action.

A received a text from B this morning saying that she has seven days to return the cat.

Does B have any legal right to the cat?

Many thanks.

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DifficultBloodyWoman · 07/05/2021 07:40

Clearly I have too much time on my hands but...
If C returns the cat to B, what would B do?

  • Would B pay for the desexing procedure (£40-100)?
  • What about food? My furballs eat very well so fuck only knows how much that costs.

Is B going to pretend that C was looking after animal out of the goodness of her heart or that C stole the cat (that was willingly handed over with cat toys)?

Or did C just keep that cat longer than an agreed cat sitting arrangement? FYI - I have been very, very well paid for cat sitting in the past - £250+ for 10 days and I got to stay in a vairy, vairy naice part of London in vairy posh house (my flat could fit into their kitchen. They even had a garden, with grass and trees and stuff. A real garden!)

KihoBebiluPute · 07/05/2021 07:45

The cat has the right to be treated humanely. Being shut in one room alone all day while B works is not humane and it would be unethical for C to give the cat back. If it came to court C would just need a representative of an animal rescue charity to testify that C's living arrangements are reasonable for a cat and that B's are not.

A should not be involved at all and should make it clear to B and C that they are not to be used as a go-between in this dispute.

I suspect @MrsBertBibby is correct that what B actually wants is to rewind the clock and sell the cat on gumtree for £££ instead of giving her away.

The person giving something away doesn't have any right to a "cooling off period" - that is something a buyer can get under certain circumstances none of which currently apply. The fact that a further exchange of cat-related accessories happened next day demonstrates that B had no regrets at the time.

As the police have said it is now a civil matter, B can't really do anything except apply to the civil courts and I very much doubt they will do so.

BedknobsNoBroomsticks · 07/05/2021 07:48

How good a friend is B normally? I think if she doesn't let this drop I would distance myself from her. She gave the cat away willingly.

Docsmix · 07/05/2021 07:56

She just needs to say she's not returning him and that's it.

sleepingcatslie · 07/05/2021 09:36

Thanks for all your replies.

C blocked B after the initial request so presumably B had no option other than to contact A.

Some truly bizarre messages were sent, such as ‘we’re on our way with the police to pick up the cat now’.

B is now blocked by all parties.

I believe C is making an appointment with CAB today.

I cannot believe that B genuinely thinks she has a right to take the cat back and is just trying to bully C into it. I do wonder what her motives are - I suspect she has realised there is money to be had if she sells her on.

Thanks for all the advice and support.

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Stickytreacle · 07/05/2021 09:44

C owns the cat. I'd also be tempted to bill B for veterinary costs, cattery fees, food/litter etc. and compensation for inconvenience, but that opens the door to admitting she's prepared to hand the cat back so don't!
If she has insurance then some policies have a free legal helpline, but as long as she keeps the texts I don't think B has a leg to stand on.

DifficultBloodyWoman · 08/05/2021 14:21

@sleepingcatslie

Thanks for all your replies.

C blocked B after the initial request so presumably B had no option other than to contact A.

Some truly bizarre messages were sent, such as ‘we’re on our way with the police to pick up the cat now’.

B is now blocked by all parties.

I believe C is making an appointment with CAB today.

I cannot believe that B genuinely thinks she has a right to take the cat back and is just trying to bully C into it. I do wonder what her motives are - I suspect she has realised there is money to be had if she sells her on.

Thanks for all the advice and support.

So are you A or C?
sleepingcatslie · 08/05/2021 14:49

Neither Smile

C is a family member and A is a family member of C’s partner.

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ThisMustBeMyDream · 16/05/2021 21:58

I've just seen something on the dreaded FB which is similar to this. Is the cat in the Merseyside area? The post is trying to claim the cat has been stolen. I can send you a link to report to fb if you believe this is your cat.

sleepingcatslie · 17/05/2021 08:04

Hi, we are in the south east.

CAB advised, on the information given, that the original owner has no rights to the cat.

B threatened a couple more times but it’s all quiet now.

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