I am looking to move as our current home is too small. It is over 3 stories with the bathroom at the top amd that is a huge challenge for DS3 and his additional needs.
The outdoor space is useless amd DS2 manages his ADHD impulses and tics if he is well exercised. We've lived here 2 years and rent is paid in full often early (benefits is paid a few days before rent day). I paid rent a week early for the same reason for the 2.5yrs at my previous address and prior to that I was employed.
I have explained that my entitlement isn't based on monthly attendance interviews and has no commitments attached to it as the DWP recognise my childrens needs out way my availability to work. Given the current situation my income is 100% more guaranteed than a fair few employed people.
I have offered to have the housing element paid directly to the LL or EA and their dad has offered to actually pay the outstanding rent directly rather than pay me CM.
The word for word response was (still cant load a friggin picture!)
"We are sorry to inform you that we have cancelled your upcoming viewing at xxxxxxxxxx as the landlord has stipulated they will only accept working applicants. Apologies for any inconvenience"
I would LOVE to work. I would LOVE for DS2 to be neurotypical and not have the learning disabilities he does so he could manage wrap around care and going too and from mums and dads house like other kids without it causing crippling anxiety for him. I would LOVE for DS3 to not have epilepsy and Arnold chiari malformation and be at the constant edge of will he/won't he need horribly invasive surgeries.
However that is not to be and to have total strangers not deem us worthy of a nice home that meets everyone's needs because societal norms meant it was me that gave up my wonderful career to care for them and not their dad is undoubtedly discrimination.