Handover times

[Wheredidthegoodgo]

Has anyone here had the nrp mess around with handover times.

Each time my ex tries to cause a confrontation at collection come bringing our DD back he starts messing about with handover times. Bringing her back an hour early, an hour late without telling me.. just basically being an arse. I think it's because I just don't engage in his arguements but this is court ordered and wondered if there is something the court can do ?

If you keep a diary you may be able to get the court to vary the order, reducing contact.

@prh47bridge would contact ever be reduced in high conflict cases?

All weekend ex has been sending emails about how he isn't going to abide by what had been agreed in an early intervention, professionals all copied in and he still say he wasn't going to abide by it and that this process of early help needs to wrap up as soon as possible. All the while berating me in every other sentence of each email. Social worker has said the impact this would have on DD would be negative and he still persists.

Just wondering in these cases would contact be reduced? Also if it's possible for the judge to order that he cannot contact me directly unless in an emergency. I know some things I'll obviously have to get his consent on, but he really is making life hell over the most basic things.

If the court has serious concerns about your ex's behaviour contact may be reduced. Indeed, in some situations the court will make a detailed order restricting what he can do.