Long long story short- exh and I split up, history of DV and social services involved- he applied to court for contact with DC. After 2 years we came to an agreement, within a month he had broken the order several times and then decided to cut all contact and moved away.
3 months later he started showing up at DS hobby, I told him to apply back to court if he wanted contact to resume. He didn’t.
Then covid happened.
DS hobby restarted in September, tried to get an agreement to alternate attendance between ex and me, he didn’t like it but eventually agreed. Then he found out DS had another hobby and he decided he was going to show up at that too and no one could stop him.
DS is 13 and had words with his father and told him to stay out of his life- his birthday and Christmas then went unacknowledged by his dad.
Now his dad is saying he’s going to start showing up at the hobby again when it restarts in April, that no one can stop him and he wouldn’t be doing anything wrong by being there because it’s on public property.
He refuses to believe DS doesn’t want him there, he thinks it’s me making DS say he doesn’t want him there when it is isnt.
DS really doesn’t want him there, says it puts him off because he shouts plus he doesn’t want to see or speak to his dad at all.
I’ve had to block him and his wife on everything because they were constantly contacting me- 2-5 times a day, it was incessant
Would a non molestation or prohibited steps order be able to stop him from showing up at the places the hobby takes place- it’s football so it’s a different park each week
I feel like there must be something I can do to stop ex forcing his presence on DS