Backstory: In 2013/4 some new people moved in next door to the house we rent out (we used to live there and plan to move back in a couple of years). They built a large extension against our garden wall, and put scaffolding all over our garden so they could do this. I don't actually remember receiving a Party Wall Notice (they might have sent us one, I honestly can't remember). The first I knew of things going wrong was when the tenants complained the scaffolding had been there, uncovered so dangerous for the tenants' kids, which was in our garden for six months. It took a couple of weeks after that for the scaffolding to be removed, at my very polite request, the scaffolders also broke some plant pots in the process and said they would pay for the damage but this didn't happen. Anyway, the building work was all completed and things have been fine since then; we didn't make a fuss as it wasn't really worth it. You've got to get on with people, right?
The other relevant thing to this is that according to their deeds, they are suppose to pay us a shilling a year for the right to fix a gate post against the side wall of our house. Again, this isn't megabucks so we haven't made a big deal about it. Life is too short.
Fast forward to 2020. Our next door neighbours have a rather neglected front garden, and let a load of plants grow up the side of our house to the point where the leaves completely blocked our first floor side window and roots damaged the wall. The plants had grown over our meter boxes as well. There is soil banked up against our house wall where they made a flower bed, and and it's made the wall damp and the plaster started flaking off on the inside. So we went around to ask if it would be OK to trim the plants back a bit and scrape back a bit of soil so our house wasn't affected any more. I went around, DH went around, and our gardener went around and asked what would be OK, and each time the neighbours were absolutely fine about it. So the gardener went ahead and did the trimming exactly as discussed.
Neighbour war then broke out. Mr Next Door Neighbour barged into our house while we were there doing some DIY and demanded to speak with DH. We think he may have stalked him on the Internet from what he was saying. He was so agressive I thought he was going to deck DH. He was extremely personally rude about our gardener in particular, which was sad as she is a lovely and very kind lady, very well trained and has impeccable gardening credentials. Our alleged crimes are:
- We stood on their land by our meter boxes to cut back the shrubs. We are not allowed on their land ever, apparently, unless they give special permission and stand there supervising us at all times, which moving forwards means we can't read our meters any longer, the electricity and gas board can't either, and it's going to be difficult if not impossible to maintain parts of our house.
- We cut back the shrubs and that meant the asbestos sheets and building rubble they had stacked up against our house wall further back since their extension build years were now visible from the road. Apparently our builders interfered with the asbestos sheets and took them out of their wrappers. (We had a plumber, painter and carpenter in to do some internal works, so obviously they wouldn't have had reason to do that).
I asked what remedy they wanted, eg us to replant for them with something that they liked but which didn't attack our wall, and Mr Next Door Neighbour refused to engage and just kept shouting at us about not going on his property.
A polite email was sent by DH after the Big Row, suggesting a calm compromise, and we have had a response. There are new alleged crimes.
- We cut the branches of a magnolia bush that were hanging over our garden and this has misshapen the tree, we should have discussed it with them and asked their permission.
- A window cleaner of ours stood on their roof (this makes no sense at all).
They have also said they are now going to run their front garden wall right along to our house wall so we can't access our meter.boxes. They have also indicated they plan to put a locked gate there (presumably using the gate post on our house they aren't paying us for).
I can think of nothing more tedious than exploding an immensely trivial boundary dispute up like this. They are people who do what they like, when they like, on our property and yet resent us reading our meters and keeping creepers growing over our windows. They therefore are, IMVHO, bonkers and not all that nice.
But in the meantime I am just not sure whether I need to be thinking about court orders or not, I would put nothing past these nutters now. All advice welcome.
I am also resisting painting a massive picture on the side of my wall making fun of them in some way (it's a conservation area so that is probably banned anyway, most sadly). 