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Executor and beneficiary

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Missingyoupapum · 21/12/2020 22:24

I have been named as the executor of the estate of someone I would not expect to be and think I am unlikely to be named as a beneficiary.

Morals/ethics aside - am I able to find out if I am a beneficiary of said estate before saying I will act as the executor? Also if I were to act as executor and incurred costs (I would) would i be liable for these?
If anyone knows it would be really helpful thanks

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OneEpisode · 21/12/2020 22:25

The costs you have receipts for can be charged to the estate.

Ragwort · 21/12/2020 22:28

My understanding is that if you are an executor any expenses are deducted from the deceased's estate.
Don't underestimate that there is quite a lot of work involved in being an executor and it shouldn't be dependent on whether you are or are not a beneficiary of the Will ... you really don't have to agree to it.

Missingyoupapum · 21/12/2020 22:42

Thank you. I know it’s going to be tons of work as will involve properties and their family members in three countries. I am so shocked to be appointed.
If I’ve been left something I am more inclined to do it, but I don’t really want to be in a position where I’m distributing lots to others but receive nothing myself after doing so much work. I wouldn’t expect to be left something from this person.

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Ragwort · 22/12/2020 03:55

You don't have to agree to be an executor, I would just politely refuse. People can appoint a solicitor to do this role.

My DH agreed years ago to be an executor for a relative, he had completely forgotten so it was quite a shock when the relative died and he had to get involved- as it happened he was left a proportion of the inheritance but it was still a lot of work and very difficult especially if you don't live nearby - if there are a number of properties invoking is likely to be complicated.

OnGoldenPond · 22/12/2020 09:43

An appointed executor can delegate the work involved in handling the administration of the estate to a solicitor. It's what most people do unless the estate is very simple and they feel confident in doing it themselves. The solicitor's fees can be claimed against the estate.

picklemewalnuts · 22/12/2020 09:45

What pond says. The executor makes the arrangements, doesn't need to do the work. It's a way of avoiding issues with the main heirs if they don't get on.

Missingyoupapum · 22/12/2020 18:31

Thank you for the information. Relief that I should be able to delegate the role to a solicitor

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StCharlotte · 23/12/2020 09:28

Or you could renounce as executor so you won't have any responsibility at all.

Ragwort · 23/12/2020 09:31

Will a solicitor do everything though? We had a solicitor when a relative died but we still had to search through the house for the birth certificate*, look for hidden savings books, sort out a new home for the dog, do some sorting out of possessions (eventually got a house clearance firm in), engage the estate agent etc - would a solicitor do all those tasks?

*Its a really good idea to try and get your paperwork in order as soon as you can ... don't leave it too late - I've gone through with my own parents where the paperwork is.

MatildaonaWaltzer · 23/12/2020 09:32

I’ve been asked to act as executor for a friend’s parent (still alive). It will be a large estate so I will definitely use a solicitor to do the dirty work but when the time comes, I won’t renounce but will supervise because I’ve been named to protect my friend’s interests and can do that, but it’s a serious hassle for a complex estate

Haggertyjane · 24/12/2020 21:14

If you don't want to be an executor then say so. It's not compulsory and should be discussed with the person making the will beforehand and getting your consent. It is a lot of work but all expenses come from the estate.

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