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Practical legal advice needed please regarding sexual harrassment

5 replies

MySecretNewUsername · 12/11/2020 18:37

Hi All,

For obvious reasons I have a new username! :-)

My partner (female) had some trouble with sexual harassment at work including non-consensual touching (i.e. criminal). The employment law process is ongoing (it started first because there was a 12 week time limit to commence) and the police/criminal process is paused pending my partner being able to talk to them (i.e. when the stress of the tribunal process has finished).

Anyway…. we have a bit of a catch 22 problem that other people must have come up against? :

  1. The employment lawyer (civil law) is asking my partner to call the witnesses and ask them if he can call them. He says if he calls out of the blue they will likely clam up and not co-operate. He’s not interested in the criminal process and thinks the police won’t be interested in prosecuting (that may be the case however my partner will likely want all the evidence on record so that if the offender tries this again there may be a tipping point in the amount of evidence and he gets prosecuted for everything – or maybe in the meantime he’ll accept a caution)
  2. The investigating police officer (criminal law) is happy for the tribunal process to go first but is insisting my partner does not contact any witnesses (even by text) as it could be presented as collusion by the defence – but he’s happy for my partner’s lawyer to contact the witnesses directly (this would be out of the blue and the lawyer is concerned people will clam up as I mentioned before). The police have said they don’t need to contact the witnesses before the employment lawyer does.

What do you think we should do? I was half thinking of insisting that the criminal investigation goes before the civil process (as I think is normally the case with most crimes?)?

Thank you for your help!

OP posts:
BlueThistles · 12/11/2020 22:03

DO NOT CONTACT HIM under any circumstances !? good grief ...

Good Luck OP 🌺

MySecretNewUsername · 12/11/2020 23:56

LOL no I’m not talking about contacting the offender - I’m talking about contacting the witnesses :-) The civil lawyer says yes and the police (criminal) say no. We’re not sure how to proceed...

OP posts:
BlueThistles · 13/11/2020 12:48

oh lol sorry 🌺

katmarie · 13/11/2020 13:15

I'd go back to the civil lawyer and tell them 'police say no' and ask for them to advise you. I would also contact the police and advise them of the situation that you're in and ask for their advice. They will have come across this problem before.

banking · 13/11/2020 13:20

Surely the police investigation is more important, why have you placed it on hold for a poxy employment tribunal which will take months to resolve?

Do both simultaneously.

Realistically you shouldn’t contact witnesses either way as it could be inferred as collusion. The solicitor is behaving unprofessionally. They need to use their words to prevent someone from “clamming up”, or find another way.

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