DH has submitted a claim for a builder/tradesman who was paid to buy materials for a job but then went awol, then was verbally abusive to DH when he tried to sort out the problem. The deadline has just passed and the partner has contacted DH asking to set up monthly payments to repay the money and avoid court.
We are aware that he has a family and are probably can’t afford to pay back the full amount at the moment. However, I feel like he’s had every opportunity to sort this out (over a month of communication/abuse and empty promises to DH) so part of me thinks it’s out of our hands now.
What now? I really don’t want DH to enter into any sort of arrangement after everything that’s gone on between them, but he feels guilty about potentially sending bailiffs round to the family home - part of the reason it all kicked off was his child was unwell. The money was initially paid into the partners account which is why I think she’s contacted DH.