My parents divorced after 30 years of marriage. My father was a violent and nasty man and hit all of us including my mother. She kicked him out and stayed in the family home. It was a split in duties in the traditional sense that he earned the money and she looked after the house and children. When they divorced she was supposed to pay him £70k to ‘buy’ him out of the house but she never did. We’ve only just found this out. The executor (a Will company) is now asking her to pay this amount to the trust (which is us 3 children) and then she can keep the house. She is over 70 now and doesn’t have that sort of money. The house has been left in trust to us but she can live there for as long as she wants. We don’t want the house. We want her to be able to live there and we don’t want the money. Is there a way round this? Thanks.