So I’ve just seen my Cafcass letter and it says that we (applicants and respondent: me) need to stop our bad mouthing (not exact words) and put the children first. I understand this but I am being lied about; the non molestation order that I got against the applicant is being dismissed as based on lies (it wasn’t); everything that has gone on is being denied. I’d just like to know, from a legal perspective, how exactly is the right way to react to such things? Am I supposed to not mention them? What is the ‘correct’ or acceptable reaction to such accusations? I am so angry that everything I proved in my non molestation order is now being denied. They are basically saying that the only reason I got it was because the applicant didn’t want to go that the stress of a hearing. Are judges wise to something like this? The applicants are grandparents looking for a court for access. I think there are two questions there.