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to suggest ex only has indirect contact with son?

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Dizraeli · 05/03/2020 17:45

Currently going through family court. Recently had fact finding. Ex found guilty (in family court) of racial abuse, refusal to accept son is mixed race, harrassment, shoving 3 month old at me in anger, coercive control, abusive communications, neglect of son by refusing to take him to appointment for his heart to get at me, forcefully removing him from me as a newborn, violent and aggressive behaviour towards me, his son and household objects. He has had court ordered indirect contact for a year or so. They've refused to increase this at every hearing. I want him to have indirect contact unless he completes a domestic abuse perpetrator programme. I'm terrified they're going to give him access without him addressing his abusive behaviours (he will never change). Does anyone know if offering indirect access only aka photographs until he completes a domestic abuse course/anger management is likely to go down ok in court?

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Dizraeli · 05/03/2020 17:56

I really need help :(

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Dizraeli · 05/03/2020 18:12

Bump

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blablablablablablabla · 05/03/2020 18:18

I don't know sorry op. But I am sorry for you and your child's situation and didn't want your post to go unanswered.

Has your ex expressed an interested in direct contact?

Dizraeli · 05/03/2020 18:25

Thank you. Yes he has. He's taken me to court over it. We've been in court for a year. They have kept it indirect throughout.

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Dizraeli · 05/03/2020 18:43

Can anyone help?

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blablablablablablabla · 05/03/2020 18:56

I am so sorry. What an awful situation. I hope it's all sorted and Your son have a lovely future.

Dizraeli · 05/03/2020 18:58

Thank you

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Fae1989 · 26/04/2020 08:09

I know this post is old but just stumbled across it, hope you got some advice. How are things now? Have you got a solicitor representing you?

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