Non-Molestation

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I separated from my ex partner, once they knew I was serious about leaving and the issues he got Aggy ! Smashed my Windows. Long story Short,
Ex-partner was remanded to prison and I lived happily ever after, for months anyway.
so I wanted to serve him with a Prohibited steps order and Non-mole so my daughter can start nursery and SS had asked me to apply for one also but trouble is !! he got out and is going about his life day by day with no fixed abode, so BAM !! Brick wall I can't serve him with it. So i ask SS what to do and they said send it to a family member !! Bam!! Brick wall !!! I'm getting in serious shit with SS because of this man, I have got the NON-Mole now but like seriously wtf !! There needs to be easier ways to gain protection.
Because now my daughter has been put on an ICO I'm living with my daughter at my parents while this is happening, all this has occurred because I sent him that fucking letter signed for with my address on it. I know you don't have to call me stupid I know it already. I feel like this is such a hard process and needs to be easier.
So help a girl out and let me know where and what I can help with to get this changed for DV victims.

Surely you have a solicitor for the ICO? Can they not sort this out?

Well, SS are worried that I "took him back"
So I am taking this time to prove my innocence and get my SW to trust again I suppose although I do have some concerns about the SW's competence.
To be honest no one really wants to hear what's happened they only care that he was there.

• Allowing a non-risk assessment person to supervise my Contact.

He even came to court and is now engaging with SS ? So I am super confused about it all and I genuinely believe he wants involvement, he even had the letter in his hand in the lobby that I sent him and that's the reason why he came to talk about what the Non-Mole etc was about.

But you have a solicitor who knows the full picture. All you're going to get on here is potentially dangerous advice (given in ignorance of the full facts).

Did you speak to him when he came to talk?

Ok Thank you.
Only thing is, I didn't want SS to be pissed at me and hold a grudge if it is the wrong thing that is happening I'm just so fearful.
To Piss Anyone !!! OFF ! So I was hoping a passer-by solicitor can help me with the concerns I have.
The ICO its not a problem with me as i still have my daughter and SS is aware that basically I've gone back to living with my parents. And it's my time to prove my innocence. But I see where your coming from I will speak to my Solicitor but I'll just make sure she's aware that I don't want to Piss off SS