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Getting rid of exP things

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Illcallbacklater · 08/12/2019 22:41

Can you get in trouble for getting rid of (giving away, not selling) something an ex partner left at yours for the better part of a year and never came to collect, ignoring repeated requests to do so over a span of 8 months?
As in, it's been disposed of and now exP is asking for it back despite having refused to collect it previously

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Lonecatwithkitten · 08/12/2019 22:49

Do you have written requests asking for removal and stating that if not collected in X days they will be disposed of?

saraclara · 08/12/2019 22:51

Sorry. He should have been given notice that you would be disposing of them if he didn't arrange collection within (insert time period)

Collaborate · 09/12/2019 08:03

Look at the Torts (Interference with Goods) Act.

Stegosaurus1990 · 09/12/2019 08:08

As if he’s going to pursue this legally!

Illcallbacklater · 09/12/2019 19:43

Yeah I doubt he will take it further. I feel bad but he's come over for other things in the past and made excuses to not take it with him, it isn't worth much, so I passed it on as I have clumsy DC and a dog, and it's a piece of furniture with glass in it, that was just in my living room. I'm not a storage unit. Even now he's asking for it back he wouldnt specify a time. We didn't end on bad terms at all, wasn't a long relationship and didn't live together. It ended up in my house as his new flatshare had a furnished living room, so this hasn't been done out of malice. I hadn't heard from him in months when I got rid of it!
I have texts where I've asked him to get it, yes

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Stegosaurus1990 · 09/12/2019 19:57

Just say, “I wasn’t able to store it so got rid of it when you failed to pick it up.”

That isn’t at all unreasonable.

Claphands · 09/12/2019 20:00

Best way to deal with things like this is to request they remove their stuff by a certain date or else you’ll charge storage fees, and that you’ll dispose of items after None collection or none payment of storage fees

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