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Grandaughter

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Nannamo66 · 03/10/2019 07:49

I have an 8 year old grandaughter who I’ve helped raise , the only time my daughter had her was school days , ive had her every other day of her life , my daughter was 14 when she fell pregnant and the sperm donor 13 , they do nothing for this little girl , if it wasn’t for myself and my husband she’d have no one , they would ask to see her every 6 months or so , well she’d scream and scream and still does , as my daughter found a new partner who idolise this little girl , her paternal aunty got jealous causing trouble , the txts threatening to get her brother to take us to court and come and take her from us , is unbelievable , now it’s at court ,my daughter 9 months ago , gave me my gorgeous grandaughter to raise as she was going threw a bad time , and the social workers , caffcass , even the judge are all on my side , as the lies from that family u real , saying they had her every weekend , but caffcass made a claim for a section 7 , so s can tell the full court the truth , she is the brightest of little girls , tells the time and everything and proves he’s lying , well why I’m asking is , the case is adjourned till December , but this family are harassing my daughter to go in favour of them ,as the first hearing , I was told I wasn’t to go , which was a mishap on hes solicitors part they reckon , they said they didn’t no s lived with me and I should be present at hearing ,it was so I didn’t have a say , my daughter went alone , he had all hes family , intimidating her before entry into family court room and after and he’s solicitor , so she was terrified and agreed to all weekend access , well now all the social workers and everything are involved and it’s looking very grim for him in court , they are txting saying give me access every weekend and I will drop the case .hes broke the court order 4 times and insists he won’t stick to where s sleeps , even though it was the judge who decided not us , my question is do I report him to hes solicitor for intimidation and breaking court order as I’m furious , or do I say nothing , I don’t want to phone her and her come up with excuses for this man in court , but my daughter has to keep changing phone numbers , aww we have 30 plus intimidating txts from him and he’s family , how can a family put a little girl through this based on lies , we have proved every single one of the lies , but as the next hearing is December 2 months away , the judge hasn’t got the proof yet

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prh47bridge · 03/10/2019 08:52

Your post is very difficult to follow and includes the child's name. However, to answer the question I think you are asking, there is no point notifying his solicitor that he is intimidating you and breaking the court order. His solicitor represents him, not you. The courts enforce court orders, not solicitors. If you need the order enforced you will have to go to court. If you have a solicitor you should discuss this with them.

Nannamo66 · 03/10/2019 16:29

Aww thank you , i didnt think about her name sorry

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RedHelenB · 03/10/2019 22:16

Hes not a sperm donor hes your grand daughters father. The court may well decide it us in her best interest to soend time with him in which case it would be helpful for her if you can have as civil a relationship with him as possible. They were both very young to have a child.

CodenameVillanelle · 03/10/2019 22:18

You have a hearing in December? Keep all the evidence and submit it before the hearing. Do you have a solicitor?
Definitely don't tell his solicitor what he's doing as they will try to get him to stop now and you want all the evidence you can get I assume

ClaraMumsnet · 03/10/2019 22:37

OP, just letting you know we've edited out the names in your OP as they may be identifying.

Nannamo66 · 04/10/2019 08:32

Thank you for editing name sorry , the only thing that man ever did good was give us a precious little girl , twice in 8 year I believe dosnt make him a father ,her stepdad is her daddy , he’s earned that right , he’s been there since she was 8 months old , every time she was rushed into hospital with her severe asthma , first days of school , Santa every year dressed up , he told my grandaughter within 10 minutes of meeting her for the first time in 7 and a half year he wasn’t her daddy he was mammys boyfreind , and he was her daddy , she FaceTimed her step daddy to go get her , sobbing , so he did to which a massive argument happened with her stepdad calling her dad the invisible man and other things , as he took her from her other family , he’s going for he has parental rights over this little girl and her stepdad kidnapped and abducted her from hes family , it’s all awful for this little girl , she isn’t allowed to see her step dad , and it’s breaking her heart and my son in laws , she has to live with me as she isn’t allowed near her step dad , I will be awarded custody of my grandaughter that is definite , but I feel so sorry for my son in law he’s an amazing dad to my grandaughter worships her

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