So, DD came back from spending the weekend with her dad. Whenever she is with him he bad mouths me to her. He is constantly questioning her on how I can afford things, and this is in the context of him thinking he shouldn't be paying me any child support. He asks things such as how i can afford a winter coat, new school shoes etc. He gives me £500 a month child support which goes toward the rent on our house. However, his behaviour is becoming more concerning and I don't know what to do. yesterday DD came home having not being fed any dinner. When I asked her why, she said her dad said " your mum can feed you as he can afford it". So, DD came home really hungry. Ex is very well off and thousands in the bank as well a property . I am reliant on benefits as DD has a disability which means I'm unable to work. He is also acting weird and goes on about conspiracy theory's and aliens amongst other things. Once he tried to get DD to take gold powder which he has ordered from the internet . I cant get a solicitor as legal aid is no longer an option. So, what can I do? I have tried talking to him but he is who he is and cant see that the way he is behaving is not healthy. He is causing a lot of stress to DD and she has enough to cope with , with her disability. He also spends most of the time dd is with him , on his phone. He seems to be putting his hatred for me and his bitterness at having to contribute toward his child's upbringing above the wellbeing of our daughter.
We were married for 10 years and he is refusing to pay me any pension despite the fact he is property rich and cash rich also.