Child arrangements

[Mrbeecee]

My ex partner has stopped all access to my son our relationship has been awful for a long time we split up and she moved out only to find out she was pregnant and since then I have had nothing but constant threats about seeing my son we ended up trying again but living separate but every time we argued it was the same story you’ll have nothing to do with my son. Fast forward 12 months she’s been to court to get a order on me to not contact her and the court have granted it now I’m stuck as what to do next there is another date set for access but that’s 5 weeks away and she’s saying she wants me to have supervised access when I have a 4yo daughter that’s been living with my for 3 days a week since me and her mom split 3 years ago can she just say that and lie and will court side with her ?

As I said my sons 6 months old next week I was with his mom for the first month every day she stopped me seeing him when I called a end to the relationship I didn’t see him for 6 weeks until I went to hers and she let me in we talked and I quickly understood that If we wasn’t together I wouldn’t see my son until it went through court so I went along with the relationship this lasted 4 weeks until we had a argument and Same again she told me I couldn’t see my son a week later we started talking again and she allowed me to come see him twice a week for 2 hrs as I did until the weekend my daughters mom was going away and I had my daughter for a long weekend Thursday till Monday and my sons mom didn’t like that so the day before she started another argument and tells me I won’t be seeing him again same old story on the Tuesday the evening I see my son she texts me saying they are going away for the week and I won’t see him so obviously I’m not best pleased I told her I will still be coming round to see it she’s lying so I arrive and she is in so I spend half hour with my son and she’s sitting there telling me to make the most of my time with him today as I won’t be seeing him again until court say otherwise so I took my son to my house for the night police was called my his mom they done a welfare check and everything was ok finally after 3 and a half months my daughter spent the day with her brother something she had been asking for every week since she had not been allowed after I called his mom and said she could pick him up she did and then I was hand delivered a letter about court with less then 24hrs notice her statements were ludicrous saying I was abusive had hit her yet she had never called the police or told anyone just a load of lies. Fabricated to get the order granted

Your posts are difficult to read so no all of it has sunk in.

You have a hearing in 5 weeks. Think about what she's put in her application and prepare a response to that.

I am doing just that finger crossed I get to see my son in the comfort of own home rather than sitting in a contact centre that's no good for anybody

i found that really hard to read. Why would she state supervised only? What have you done (if anything) to warrant this?

She started the court process after you took your son without permission. Have a think about that.

"She started the court process after you took your son without permission. Have a think about that."

If he has parental responsibility, he doesn't need to ask for permission. He's an equal parent.

That's a significant use of the word "IF" however.

MrBeeCee - do you have parental responsibility? Are u on the birth certificate? It's very important.