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final hearing and still no contact

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hopefulandstrong · 24/08/2019 20:31

My dp had his final hearing for a family case regarding his son a month ago.

His Ex didn't make ds available the weekend afterwards as she suddenly announced she was taking ds away for the week two days before contact.
Dp is meant to see ds tomorrow, but ex has now added additional request she want dp to do or tell her or she isn't allowing contact to happen.
She has stated it's dp fault for preventing contact tomorrow as he isn't doing as she requested.

What should dp do?

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NightOwl101 · 24/08/2019 20:32

Is what she is asking of your DP stated in court documents?

hopefulandstrong · 24/08/2019 20:37

The court order stated to send over his number and address. She reminded him through text so she had the number. He sent it anyway with his address.
She said his address isn't the one she thought so want an explanation. The explanation he gave wasn't good enough. She wants more plus information about me.
Plus she wants him to confirm he will be there at all time.
He has followed all the orders.

This is the third time she has prevented contact. First was because her dp couldn't do drop off and she didn't want to.

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RandomMess · 24/08/2019 20:41

This isn't going to look good on her in court is it...

hopefulandstrong · 24/08/2019 21:20

So does my dp apply for an enforcement?

He's more concerned about how the ds 5 is feeling.
Issue is the more you communicate with her the more she requests.

What happens if you choose not to make the child available for contact?

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Collaborate · 24/08/2019 21:56

He needs to complete form C79 and get it back before the same judge ASAP. assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/687799/c79-eng.pdf

hopefulandstrong · 25/08/2019 11:38

Thank you.
He just went to pick up ds and the ex and ds weren't there.

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Chocolate50 · 26/08/2019 18:51

That os so unfair - its not right for his DS. Yes I agree with previous poster - if there is an order in place & she is going against it then he can & should ask for an enforcement order. If there is no order in place then he should ask for one as if there is just an agreement in place & she's not complying then an order is the only way to go.

hopefulandstrong · 26/08/2019 18:57

They had the final hearing and order done a month ago and she refuses to handover the ds. And now she has threatened to contact the police because he went to her home to knock on the door.
She is dangerous and seriously insane.
She honestly believes she's right and the order is only for my dp to follow and she can change and add things as she is to enforce the order. The order isn't for her to follow.

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