Sorry if this is long... I moved into my house in 2017 after leaving a very bad relationship. My housing officer came round to sort the tenancy and while here, we filled in a housing benefit form together. She took all paperwork and evidence with her and told me she would take it all back and get it sorted out.
I know it is essentially my responsibility to make sure it was all done but it just didn't enter my head to check and I had no letters or anything to say otherwise.
I have now been served with a section 8 and have over £4000 Rent arrears.
I applied for DHP and was refused because they say I have £15 a month spare and can come to an arrangement
social services have now opened a child protection plan as they say I've neglected my kids by risking their home and if I get evicted, they will house my children but not me.
I know I should have checked and made sure my hb had been set up correctly but I trusted my housing officer. Also how can a landlord let you get into £4000+ arrears before letting you know?
I have been to the CAB and they said there's nothing they can do to help as it is rent and is my fault no matter what the reasons are.
Does anyone know where I can go for advice/help? I stand to lose my children and my home and no one so far has been able to help me, except to say I need to pay it. I wish i could, but unfortunately I can't magic up that kind of money.