I am desperate for some help please.
I have received a letter in the post today from my previous employer which is a money claim.
I will briefly outline the back story...
I worked for a small cleaning company and was doing roughly 32 hours a week.
My brother died suddenly in March and I requested compassionate leave. I was given 2 days. I then requested leave for his funeral which I also had to organise as I was his only close family left and wasn't given any time off however, I took it upon myself to take two days off which I wasn't paid for- fine.
The email correspondence I received from them was stressful, hostile and rude and it made me look for another job.
I found another job and handed in my notice stating I was giving one weeks notice although, I was aware that my contract stated I give one months notice but without going in too deep, I could not spend another day working for this company due to their treatment of me.
My new employer wrote to them requesting a reference and the one supplied stated that I was rude, unapproachable and came to work drunk. I have NEVER turned up for work drunk and I completely disagree that I was ever rude or unapproachable.
Thankfully my new employers understood my situation and took no notice and hired me anyway however, I cannot explain what that letter has done for my mental state. Ever time I think of it, I feel sick and worry so much that I work myself up in to having a panic attack.
I received emails stating that my previous employer would take me to court and they have now done this claiming for breach of contract and loss of earnings to the sum of £1500. This is almost double what I earned in a month, let alone the 3 weeks I did not work the notice period.
I accept that I breached the contract in not working the stated period however I feel I had no other choice and in the month before my resignation, my hours were slowly reduced to less than 20 hours a week which I was struggling to survive on.
I believe I was close to a breakdown and would cry myself driving to work each and every morning.
I would really appreciate any advice on how to handle this as I honestly don't believe that the consequences of me breaching the contract has equalled £1500 in loss of earnings.
I accepted that I would not get paid for the remaining and was even willing to forego the 2 days paid holiday I had accrued.
Will they have to evidence the loss of earnings and can I ask for them to provide proof?
I am still friendly with a few former colleagues who informed me that they dished the scheduled work in those 3 weeks out to the other members of staff.
Please can anyone offer any advice as I am at the end of my tether and not sure I can cope with this on top of everything else.