Hi posting in behalf of my Bil. Need some urgent advice regarding child access.
Bil has court order for access to his son (9yr ol) for EOW end ans holidays. This has a Long drawn out process. Co in place for aprox 18months.
Today is his contact day and ex has not turned up. He had contacted her and she messaged him back saying "ss have advised me to stop contact". Nothing else. She will not respond or answer calls.
We have contacted ss edt, they took name and details and told him he (bil) is not attached to the child on their system. They asked for child and exs details. Then asked him if anyone has been bailed to his address. He said not that i know of (he has not been arrested but he has a flatmate who he is positive has not been arrested but can't speak to him.until later tonight to check) woman on phone then says it is possibly true she has been advised to stop contact. But wouldnt say why?? And told him to phone ss on monday morning.
So he phoned local police to see if there had been amy complaints made about him or if they had anything about his address. They said they cant give him any info due to gdpr.
What can he do in this situation? He last had child 4 weeks ago due to him (bil) been ill on last contact. Ex messaged him 2 week ago to ask bil to take son to an activity this week end, which he agreed to. There has been no contact inbetween. Bil is not aware of any problems.
Ex also has another child and bil is in regular contact with this childs dad. They have a similar contact order and do meet up so the children can do activities together. He has hos child this weekend she has not stopped his contact.