Hi, I’m after some advice please. Back in 2012 when I was 33 weeks pregnant with my first child I went for a routine midwife appointment and I was measuring slightly larger than I should have done for my gestation. She said it was probably nothing to worry about but booked me in to the local hospital to be seen by a doctor and to have TORCH blood tests.
I had the tests and a scan and it showed I was positive for CMV and the baby was a lot smaller than he should have been plus echogenic bowel and I had a lot of excess fluid. I was then told I’d need to be induced ASAP so I had my little boy at 35 weeks. He was born weighing 3 pounds, could hardly breathe and spent 15 months in intensive care due to respiratory failure. At one point I was told he was definitely going to die. Fast forward to now and he’s profoundly deaf, severe development delay, can’t talk, can only walk with assistance and is fed via gastrostomy tube. He attends a special needs school and he is a lovely happy little boy but I can’t shake this feeling of how such a severe infection was missed until I was 33 weeks pregnant.
I had my second child last year, a healthy boy and obviously because of what happened to my eldest son I made sure I had lots of scans and questioned Everything! What is playing on my mind though is that I was told my blood results during my first pregnancy indicated a ‘re activation of CMV’ so when I was pregnant with my second son I insisted a virologist check all my routine blood results to check it didn’t ‘re activate’ again.
The virologist report came back saying that it’s likely during my first pregnancy that it wasn’t a re activation, it shows it was likely to be a primary infection hence all the problems my sons suffered as when he looked back at my routine blood tests at my 12 week appointment for my first pregnancy certain things were elevated. These were not followed up/ questioned.
Any advice/ thoughts welcome, thank you