Hi, my exH uses the courts, social services and police to harass me and continue the abuse that was present in our relationship.
I've spoken to my solicitor and he's not sure how a non-mol would be worded to prevent this. The CAO already says no further applications to vary without permission of the court but he gets round this by making applications to enforce and then things get varied off the back of that as there's nothing to enforce. If the kids are ill and miss contact then have a different day with him to make up for it, he applies to enforce as I've breached the order. He's done this several times now and in total I've been to court 18 times with him. All applications to enforce are dismissed but we end up with another year of contact dates.
With each application he also alleges abuse. These are malicious allegations and social services, and most recently the police, have closed the file/taken no action.
I've been referred to local women's aid services as a result of all this and I refuse to have direct communication with him as he pesters me with texts and sends nasty messages.
I've had a non-mol against him before in the form of an undertaking. This was a few years ago.
What can I do based on this? The kids are 10 and 12.