My DFather has always been the black sheep of the family with his brother being treated as the 'Golden Child'
For many years there has been a bone of contention regarding the estate left behind when my DFs paternal grandmother passed away.
She had no surviving partner and left behind a 2 bed property with no mortgage.
My DFs parents handed the property straight to my DFs brother, with the jewellery, cash and other items of value going straight to my DFs dad and no more being said about it.
My DF has had a really rough time of it. Losing properties, work opportunities, businesses and even having to go bankrupt over the years due to supporting my DMs(god rest her soul) through her addiction. He has continued on regardless.
His brother on the other hand has lived mortgage/rent free for over twenty years, has basic bills, childcare on tap (house is round the corner from the parents) and decent schools/opportunities for his daughter.
He hasn't had to do a hard days work in his life - hasn't had to fight for anything.
As you can imagine, my DF is fucked off - but was of the opinion 'that's the way the cookie crumbles' until we found out what we did.
The estate of DFs grandmother never went to probate. We found out completely by accident.
I have absolutely no idea what happened (over 20 years ago now) but there was no will. The house is actually still under her name on the deeds, it should've been shared out equally along with the other assets but it was kept between my DFs brother and parents - he did not see a penny.
My DF is beyond furious.
That he has struggled all these years when really he could've had a helping hand too, that his brother has had it so easy on what was effectively my dad's money too, that it all happened so slyly and illegally so that he couldn't get a look in.
We have no idea what to do next. Anyone with a legal mind who can advise? What's gone on is so beyond dodgy and my DF is utterly enraged at a) his GMs name being besmirched and b) being kept in the dark as he had.