Hi, my ex husband has just told me that he is going to drop my monthly child maintenance from £900 to £300, with effect from 4 weeks time!!
His reasoning is that he has just quit his very well paid job to concentrate on his part time cider making venture (so no income currently, although we all know that his mother will be supporting him). He has invested well over £100k in this, he drives a very top of the range Audi and his mother gave him £35k at Christmas to invest in the business. His girlfriend is also pregnant.
I have taken on a second job a month ago because I am skint.
I've had a brief chat with the solicitor who handled my divorce 5 years ago and apparently he cant just stop it...until there is a variation made in court, he will just be getting into arrears. I suspect he'll probably get the variation if he takes it to court but can anyone tell me how long this kind of thing takes to do? Obviously I need it to be strung out for as long as possible.
He has savings to generously pay me £300 a month, because apparently he needn't actually pay me anything at all due to no income!