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Do I have to go?

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SofaKingFedUp · 02/01/2019 14:30

I live with my mum (temporarily), we live in a block of flats and there is a man living in the flat directly below us.
He has some sort of mental health issue, he used to have a social worker visit him regularly but one morning, my mum told me (I wasn't living here at this time) she woke up to him shouting and swearing and she saw his social worker leaving. There has been no social worker since, thus was a couple of years ago now.
My mum used to speak to him, he has a dog and my mum has 2 so they would see eachother out, she also used to pick up dog supplies for him as he can't go himself (I don't know why, he's not disabled physically' and he can go food shopping for himself) his social worker used to go for him. My mum and this guy have had arguments a few times, he's gone off on one for some random things, shouting at other neighbours, one who was a single mum and very timid. He tells everyone he's been to prison, apparently shared a cell with Bronson (I don't believe this) always bragging about all the knives he has in his flat (machetes for example). We've never seen them but he talks about them alot.
My mum has had to call the police a few times on him for threatening behaviour. He also use a a punchbag in the communal stairway at 5am. My mum complained to the council (his flat is council owned) but they just sent him warnings.
Whenever the police were called, my mum said they were pretty much useless, didn't do anything just had a word with him about his behaviour even though he threatened to beat her up and cut her with his "knives"

A couple of months ago, he started again, standing under my mum's bedroom window shouting insults, my mum shouted down for him to shut up and move on (usually this works She said) but this time he went on a rage. I was in my bedroom puttin my DD to bed and I could hear him shouting, something about gettin his knives and "puttin you all in a body bag". I went through to my mum to see what was going on, then i called the police as I could hear him coming up the stairs towards our door. He was at the door while I was on the phone to the police. We locked the door. The police came took statements and seemed very much concerned, the police before have never been like this according to my mum. They informed us that he has been arrested and will be on in court the next day. They also said he had knives but they were just display ones.
We've received a letter each, saying we have to attend court in February for this incident. I honestly didn't think it would go this far, as my mum has called the police many times for similar things and it's never gone further than "having a word".
It makes me think that there's something the police have seen/witnessed that other haven't before? Or maybe because there is a very young child here now?
Also do I have to go to court? The thought of it makes me incredibly anxious, I don't know why. I've never been so I dont know how it works or what happens. He's plead not guilty and that's why it's gone to court apparently? Will I have to stand in front of people? I hate doing this sort of thing.

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MrsBertBibby · 02/01/2019 14:58

These people can help

www.victimsupport.org.uk

BubblesBuddy · 02/01/2019 15:12

Display knives are knives. What have the police charged him with? Did he have a knife on him when he came towards your flat?

I really think you must speak to the police about this. If they have not asked you to give evidence, then it won’t be tomorrow.
However they might put him in prison pending investigation - on remand. He seems unstable and unsafe.

The Police cannot keep ignoring this. You do need to steel yourself to say something if asked. I would be on at the police all the time about him. His behaviour isn’t acceptable the police know he has knives. Display knives is just ridiculous!!! They have blades. They are knives. Make sure you do what you need to do!

SofaKingFedUp · 02/01/2019 16:16

My mum has been on at the council, as he is staying in a council owned flat, she's reported every incident to them Nd also any threats that have been made by him towards her have been reported to the police. Previously the police just brushed it off, it seems he is well known by them and to be honest, I do believe he is all mouth no action but I also have this year that one day, if he is mentally unstable, he may actually do something. I haven't lived here long but obviously I have visited and I have spoken to him on occasions prior to this incident and he does seem like he needs some sort of help or support. And my mum has also told the police and the council this too. But no one seems to do anything, until now. The last police officers took a dislike to him, this happened a out 2 months ago. The letter came through 2 weeks ago saying we had to reply, if not they will come to our home or workplace. But I don't really want to go to court. I don't really know what he's being charged for either, anni supposed to know? The police told me he was arrested and will be on in court the day after it happened ( 2 months ago) I know he pleaded guilty so that's why we have received letters to go to court. But I don't know exactly what he's been charged with

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SofaKingFedUp · 02/01/2019 16:18

He pleaded not guilty* sorry I didn't proof read that and there's a few spelling mistakes.

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redastherose · 05/01/2019 10:17

Speak to the police officer dealing with the case or to victim support. They will be able to tell you what will happen and what to expect but yes you will need to attend if you have been summonsed by the Court.

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