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Great Aunt has signed house over to carer

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PooFlower · 29/12/2018 13:05

I would be grateful for some advice on this. My Great Aunt has signed her house over to her carer.

Great Aunt is in her eighties. She lives alone after her son died last year.
She has the beginnings of dementia and has a paid carer who visits daily. She is close to the carer and has known her for a few years. I think the carer is paid for from local authority, however I am not sure about this as I think she may be self employed.

Alarm bells rang at Aunts sons funeral as all of carers family, including children attended.
The carer also stuck to Aunt like glue.
When my mum arrived at Aunts house before the funeral Aunt was in a bedraggled state with unwashed hair. We just put this down to her grieving.

My Grandad wanted Aunt to give my Dad and his cousin power of attorney to protect against things like this. Grandad was worried about the carer too. Aunt refused and seemed to like the carer so the subject was dropped. Grandad did warn Aunt to not sigh her house over to anyone .

My Grandad is very worried about this but is in his 90s and housebound so is limited to what he can do.

We are worried about what would happen if Aunt needed residential care which is very likely with Aunts current health problems and the longevity on that side of the family.
Is there anything that the family can do about this?

This is not about the money it is about the principle. The house is not worth that much and would be shared between a lot of nieces and nephews if Aunt out lived my Grandad which is likely.

OP posts:
birdladyfromhomealone · 30/12/2018 22:56

My elderly FIL did the same, left everything to his carer that my DH paid for!!
Nothing we could do as it was his last will and testomy.
His solicitor agreed that he was of sound mind although he was in the early stages of dementia.
He lived in a warden control block of flats for retired folk. His carer works for several residents.
At FIL funeral my BIL asked her are you going to retire now you have inherited 90k from my DF?
She said no as she could not let her other old folk down :(

MrsSchadenfreude · 30/12/2018 23:04

My uncle’s carer was sacked by her agency for accepting gifts of food from his freezer. I don’t mean the odd box of fish fingers, but whole lobsters, steaks and joints of meat. He had early stage dementia. My cousin used to go over twice a week and would cook them not dinner, and found the freezer depleted!

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