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LawsonPeyton1 · 06/12/2018 17:24

This may end up slightly long winded so I apologise in advance
Basically, my ex and I have been broken up for just less than 2 years and have 2 children together. The beginning of the breakup was messy a lot of back and forward etc. Eventually we ended up in mediation. Twice. The result ending in him having Friday night's until Monday. However. I am still picking kids up from school on his days and picking them up early morning Monday to take them to school because neither him not his partner are able to do it.
Recently things have become heated again resulting in threats of court etc. And I guess I just want to know what to expect in case it does go down that road. Our schedule we have atm is stable and the kids are settled with how things are.
Since he left I have provided everything for my children, had to pay him money for him to have them even though he's the one working. He is still not financially stable, often pays less maintenance than he is supposed to, I do a lot of running around on his days etc to make it easier. He recently lost his car so I've been doing even more doing every school run etc on the days he's meant to. Hes moved house 3 time in a year.And there is a lot of other things. I'm financially stable and provide everything for the kids and I do everything for school etc. And I just want to know if he would have a case accepted or if he's gain extra time anything like that? It will break my heart of he takes them any extra days or anything I'd be happy to just go tine as it is but with him actually doing what he's meant to on his days.
There is more to this but Thisbis the short version!
Any advice or experiences would be greatly appreciated

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ArnoldBee · 06/12/2018 17:30

Stop! His days his responsibility to sort it out.

KaitlynRep · 06/12/2018 17:35

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LawsonPeyton1 · 06/12/2018 18:21

I've bent over backwards to make this as easy as possible for the entire tine!! I've not always been an angel I've lost my temper when it's got too much butbive always just gone with whatever to make it less stressful for the kids. It even cost me my relationship at the start of the year because my partner thought I was a pushover for my ex. But we are sorted and going away in January and my ex has kicked up a fuss again about me going away!! I'm at a loss with it all. X

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