Hello, just looking for a signpost in the right direction. I have an 8 month old DS. I am also 14 weeks pregnant. My ex and I are separated. I kicked him out 3 months ago when I discovered he was using cocaine. Prior to that he was never home, always out drinking or at work. Since then I have allowed him to come over for 2 hours a day to see my son at my home. I will not allow him unsupervised until he passes a drugs test. I have concerns about him driving under the influence, while checking his phone and driving aggressively. I worry that he would put my child at risk. He agreed to no unsupervised until he can pass a drugs test which he verbally stated would be 6 months from his use. My current issue is that every time he comes to my home an argument ensues. He disrupts DS routine because he's always in a hurry to get somewhere (often the pub for the football) and will stop his dinner early or take him out of the bath early resulting in me having to feed him again and resettle him. He is hostile towards both myself and my mother and yesterday's argument was because he would not stop picking his nose and flicking the contents on my carpet. Ultimately he has no respect for me. I'm finding this increasingly difficult to deal with and it's really putting a strain on my health. I don't know where I stand legally. I would like to stop his access until something could be formally arranged (he refuses to go to mediation) but I'm terrified this will make me look bad in court and even more terrified that he will get unsupervised and my son will be put in a potentially unsafe situation. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.