Solicitor/mediation

[Mummzyof3]

So my ex's ex gf has decided to ring a solicitor to see if what me an him had disscusses to mediation about our chils is right, he then got a message from his ex ( who he has kida with) saying that i was lying and they woulsnt of agreed with what was said as the solicitor has said so also she has tried telling him that mediation arnt involved as they would agree to him seeing our child at my house. did she have the right to do this?

If it’s about your dc what is it to do with her?

Well theres a long back ground story and basicaly i have said to my partner if he is seeing/talking to this girl then he isnt having our child on his own as i am safe guarding him,he can still see our lb but not to take him on his own, after explaining all to mediation they have agreed i am doing the right thing and that there is plausable reason to do so, because she has done all this my ex has said to her she has caused to much trouble and he isnt seeing there kids any more because of it all, and i get a crappy message stating she is sick of my s**t and i cant stop him seeing there kids (i havnt done so that is his choice not mine ) altho he hasnt helped matters as when mediation basicaly said with me or a contact centre he said no i wont see him then he had it in his head that i had stopped him seeing him and had aaid to her i cant see them if he has our lb, but im annoyed she haa rang solicitor as ira non of hee business its between me and him x

Sorry but your post doesn't make sense.

Wich bit sorry x

Basically i just want to know if she has the right to ring asking a solicitor when it is really non of her buisness as its between me and my ex partner x

Has she called YOUR solicitor or has she just said she’s called a solicitor to ask their opinion?

She has rang a solicitor ( not mine) to ask if mediation would agree on what has been said even tho my ex has seen and heard all the proof from mediation that what has been said is infact correct and they do agree x

So she could have just made up that she’d spoken to a solicitor?
I’d just ignore her. It’s got nothing to do with her.

Thats what i was thinking as she is known to lie compulsivly ( me and ex have both seen this) its just really wound me up tho as she has been telling him "the procedure on what mediation would of done and said " as the solicitor has told her so, i know what mediation have said and so does he but she is still trying to cause trouble between me and my ex ,thankfully he has heard and seen everything, so just wanted to see if she had the right to do so ( without paying as she hasnt paid over £200 i know that much ) x

Did you not get a summary from mediation ? I did from mine .

Yes i did but i refuse to show her anything as she doesnt need to see anything as i see it as its between me and my ex about of child and has nothing to do with her ,i feel like i dont need to proove anything to this girl who is trying to cause trouble x

It's nothing to do with her really I would just ignore her. It sounds like she's trying to wind you up and it's working. Don't give her the reaction she wants

I don’t think you do either .

I am still confused though ... if it’s ex’s ex why would he be seeing her and why would she be at access?

Because they also have a child together, she hasnt been to anything she just heard on the grapvine things and took it upon herself to get involved with my life x