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Gross Insubordination

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flossietoot · 26/10/2018 00:44

Hi- I have an HR question I hope someone may be able to help with, in relation to misconduct in the workplace.
I am very senior in a job role and recently reduced my hours for personal reasons and also to assist with a potential financial deficit. I have one direct report who looks after things on an operational basis. They have basically been really difficult since this new arrangement has been in place- effectively pretending I do not exist, not responding to emails/ phone calls, making significant decisions at odds to what I have said, been extremely rude to me on the phone, and basically refusing to make any attempt to work with me being based remotely- I was never involved operationally so this has had no impact on their work load. I feel really quite bullied and stressed out by the behaviour, made worse by them telling the person that I report to a pile of nonsense (luckily they know it is nonsense) about me not communicating with them.
I told the member of staff I had had enough of the behaviour and if it continued I planned to raise a grievance and they laughed and sneered at me and told me to go ahead. They are under the belief that as they are in charge operationally I can’t do anything.
So what can I do??

OP posts:
Lonecatwithkitten · 26/10/2018 07:22

Follow your work place grievance process it sounds like your manager is aware and will support you.

prh47bridge · 26/10/2018 11:00

If this person is your direct report I don't know why you would be raising a grievance. I would start the disciplinary process.

flossietoot · 26/10/2018 16:07

Thanks! I am starting the disciplinary process. Was just so upset by it all I used the wrong terminology.

OP posts:
RedHelenB · 29/10/2018 23:23

I'd tread carefully as if they have an operational role then they may be more important to the company than you are.

flumpybear · 29/10/2018 23:30

Have you been through the previous steps of working through issues with yourself, line management of all concerned etc - you can't go straight to grievance without following process first

prh47bridge · 30/10/2018 08:33

if they have an operational role then they may be more important to the company than you are

Any manager, particularly in a senior role, will have direct reports who do a lot more operationally than they do. It would be a very shortsighted employer that backs a member of staff guilty of gross insubordination towards their manager.

you can't go straight to grievance without following process first

We've already established that this is a disciplinary matter, not a grievance, as the member of staff concerned reports to the OP.

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