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Resident parent as a shift worker

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Letterrecieved · 24/10/2018 10:05

DH's ex scheduldes which weekends we have their DC according to her working hours and sends us the dates usually 8 weeks ahead. Family look after the DC while she works. She doesn't allow DP too.

Schedule is 2 weekends a month so he's going back to court to ask for more time but he also wants a fixed schedule. Whats the likelihood of this? He works regular hours. The only cases I've found are of the non-resident parent being a shift worker (Dad is a paramedic or works on a rig).

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Collaborate · 24/10/2018 11:24

Courts fit contact around a non-resident parent's shift work so there's no reason to think they wont accommodate your husband's ex. Doesn't mean to say he hasn't got a reasonable chance of getting more time with them.

5Makes9 · 24/10/2018 12:15

How does fixed schedule benefit the children?

Letterrecieved · 24/10/2018 12:47

I'm sure there are many opinions on both sides of that 5Makes9. How do you feel? That two families should be held to the will of one persons?

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5Makes9 · 24/10/2018 15:44

The court will be interested in how a fixed schedule benefits the children involved. In my experience they are far less interested in how it impacts everyone else.

Clare45BST · 26/10/2018 17:20

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