DH's ex scheduldes which weekends we have their DC according to her working hours and sends us the dates usually 8 weeks ahead. Family look after the DC while she works. She doesn't allow DP too.
Schedule is 2 weekends a month so he's going back to court to ask for more time but he also wants a fixed schedule. Whats the likelihood of this? He works regular hours. The only cases I've found are of the non-resident parent being a shift worker (Dad is a paramedic or works on a rig).