My DP has worked at this company for many years and has just been offered a director role. It’s something he’s wanted for a long time, for the prestige, responsibility and extra money.
My problem is that this company are not hugely respected within their industry, and have been carrying out some seriously dodgy practices - possibly even fraudulent - over recent years. DP has put his concerns about these activities in writing to try to correct things and to protect himself.
He has recently taken advice from a solicitor who apparently said that he has covered himself for these past misdemeanours and wouldn’t be expected to whistle-blow in this circumstance. However I’m not sure he’s giving me the full story, as he wants to stay here so much and he knows I’m against it, so I know he wouldn’t want to tell me if the solicitor had expressed any doubt.
The previous directors are now called CEO, CFO etc so DP’s director title is more in name than an actual legal thing, he isn’t a shareholder etc so not a director as I understood it to be.
If this company continues to act fraudulently (leopards don’t change their spots) as a ‘director’ will DP be implicated in their dodgy dealings and as such, could our home be at risk if the company is taken to court?
Ideally I know he should leave - he was in fact planning to leave when they offered him this promotion to convince him to stay. I cried when he told me he was staying there
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The actual directors are a bunch of narcissists and bullies, cheat on their wives and have treated him pretty shabbily over the years too. I know you get those types everywhere, but I really wish he had left and not stuck with ‘the devil he knows’ for fear of the devil he doesn’t. If he stays, how bad is it?