Hi all,
I’m just fed up my life is going from worse to worse. Now I have this letter from DWP wanting to telephone interview me because basically they are suspicious.
I have been on a total roll a coaster since leaving my husband in January and my head has been all over the place ( he is a narcissist) and I am now suffering ptsd and anxiety and now the letter!
Basically in short... he moved out in January and I claimed income support. We got back together (stupidly)and he moved back in a week later so cancelled income support. We then broke up again mid March and lived in seperate rooms, I claimed income support again and told them this and they said okay. Then a week later he moved out to his mums so again I called income support and told them this and they said okay. Even though he had left he was still abusive to me, turning up at my home unnamounced, started the smear Campagne and continued to gas light me and control my life in general. I found a job and started for 1 day doing an induction as I had to pretend everything was normal but I was planning on going in to a refuge to get away from him and was waiting on space. I gave the company me national insurance number and they paid me for the induction a month later. I never started the job and I left to go in to refuge 10 days later. My ex also pays me child maintenence sometimes in dribs and drabs sometimes I’m full ( it’s sll s control thing) he sometimes labels it child maintenence and sometimes labels it children’s gifts. As you can see it could be a any number of these things why I have thus letter but I’m so frightened and stressed! I move out of the refuge next week and in to houding association house but if they cancel my income support how am I going to support me and my kids? And what about houding benefit how will I claim that if I loose my money? I suppose my question is, can they stop my money??? And if they do tnfn what? Do I just put in s new chain? I can’t loose my house or I’ll loose my kids!! My children are on waiting list for school at new place (it’s a different town & I don’t drive) so they will be out st school for a while so it’s not like I can even find a quick job to start to save my ass!) please can someone put my mind at ease I’m under do much stress 