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bec45 · 27/07/2018 21:07

Need advice. I am a mum of 14 and 11 year old boys. My husband their step dad critises my son's behaviour and shouts at them and says I am a weak mother. Sine examples In the middle of night my son went to the toliet and peed on the seat. In the morning by husband went ballistic shouting at him going on about it throughout the day. Another example he says to me in front of them when they tell him they love him it is fake and they are only saying this because they want something. He now says he wants nothing to do with them and is blanking us all. This is heart breaking I am walking on egg shells and my gut is telling me he is being emotionally abusive . What rights do I have can I make him leave as the atmosphere is terrible. Need advice he is just living in our bedroom so I am sleeping on the seatee. He is making our lives hell the house deeds and mortgage are in my name.

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MrsBertBibby · 28/07/2018 08:01

Yes, that's horrible behaviour.

Getting him out is tricky. If you are sure the relationship is over, you need to start divorce proceedings asap. Until you are divorced he has matrimonial rights of occupation.

The alternative is to seek an Occupation Order, but it isn't easy to get someone out in the absence of serious violence.

You can get help from NCDV www.ncdv.org.uk although I would suggest seeing a family solicitor is preferable as you should get advice that covers the financial issues and divorce.

bec45 · 28/07/2018 08:32

Thank youSmile

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