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Non molestation and legal help and solicitors

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Missyh87 · 19/07/2018 13:17

So I applied for a non molestation order long story short long history of emotional abuse now messing my baby around and sick of it. The court ranked us both one without finding even though he didn’t say anything in court. Been to solicitors paid 240 quid. Through the back end of pregnancy I was made to feel like I had a mental illness so he can just cover up his own lies and deception because he has an unjustified reason for a non on me too i now loose legal aid. He doesn’t want contact he doesn’t want to be made to be bad guy either so I’ve asked for specifics in my letter to him today. However she said it I’ll aggravte him it won’t do it will deter him, I’ve asked for proof of domestic abuse mentioned, fact I’ve never stopped contact he was playing games and she said this is against my advice end of the day she couldn’t see my reasons but I have my own reasons. She said not to get my order applied for revoking but I’m going against that because I’ll loose my legal aid. Basically he’s one of the biggest manipulators on the planet.

Then my friend screen shots my Snapchat as her mum works there as in gest put a Snapchat on saying when you argue with your solicitor but u will do what I say as I’m paying u I hate snakes sick of them all now! Jesus I’ve had enough he’s such a bully I’m a new mum heads all over. I am at end of the day paying for her to do a job and my reasons are my own.

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riceandpeas123 · 20/07/2018 20:34

Not totally sure I follow your message but I think the gist of it is that you are annoyed that your solicitor has given you advice that you don't like?

Solicitors are not just paid to do what you tell them to. They have to provide legal advice - whether it's what you want to hear or not.

Also, if you're doing something which they believe will harm your case they have an obligation to tell you that.

Actually, that is what you are paying her for.

I don't know that I understood enough of the rest of the message to comment further at the moment.

Familylawsolicitor · 21/07/2018 22:41

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