My ex "took me to court" last year
I say this loosely as i never received anything except a phone call one morning from a woman claiming to be from the court and in the background my ex was telling her what he wanted, the woman said this is what he wants you have no say and she hung up.
Fast forward a year I have mad enough my daughter see her dad on the days he demanded, listened to her cry every night before she goes to his and taken her to meet him crying her eyes out dealt with his abuse towards me infront of her seen her literally being dragged away from me. I have told all this to cafcass they don't care as well as school and social services and they won't help as he just turns on the charm And make sure he slanders
Me bringing up my past post natal depression and my anxiety and my psoriasis and my apparent adultery because I wouldn't do anything with him when we were together
Our child is 6 years old we broke up when she was 1 he didnt bother with her until last January
I know I chose to have a baby with him but i didn't chose to be abused when pregnant after having her and now
This weekend I withheld contact due to the previous weekend of her being dragged down the street away from me but he got his gf to drive him to my house three times to shout at me about how he is going to win and offered me money to have her which I said no amount of money would ever make me give her up. He bluffed calling the police as that's his game and i shut the door in his face and went upstairs to find my daughter crying and shaking under my duvet.
We can't keep living like this anymore but no one will listen to me or hear her voice as she's too young